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YOUR KID'S BODY CONFIDENCE STARTS WITH YOU

 Modern Mommy Doc


PUBLICATION DATE:

August 6, 2025

YOUR KID'S BODY CONFIDENCE STARTS WITH YOU

 Modern Mommy Doc

CATEGORY: Dr. Whitney

About the Episode:


In today’s solo episode, Dr. Whitney  shares a heartfelt preview of her upcoming book for kids ages 7–12, My One-of-a-Kind Body: The Ultimate Guide to Caring for Me (coming October 20, 2025). Whitney reads the letter to parents included in the book, a powerful invitation for caregivers to reimagine how we talk to our kids—and ourselves—about bodies, health, and self-worth.

As a pediatrician and mom of two, Whitney knows firsthand how challenging it is to navigate body image, diet culture, and social media messaging—especially when we’re still unpacking our own conditioning. This episode unpacks the foundational ideas behind My One-of-a-Kind Body, blending personal insight with expert perspective.

Key Takeaways:


If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and felt a pang of guilt…


If you’ve ever overheard your child say something unkind about their body—and didn’t know what to say…


If you’ve ever wished you had the tools to protect your kid from the pressures, shame, and confusion that so many of us grew up with…


Then I made this book—and this podcast episode—for you.


This week on the Modern Mommy Doc podcast, I’m offering something a little different: a heartfelt preview of my brand-new book for kids, My One-of-a-Kind Body: The Ultimate Guide to Caring for Me (coming October 20, 2025). It’s a body literacy guide for kids ages 7–12, packed with science, inclusive illustrations, and confidence-building tools. But it’s also for you—the parent, the caregiver, the adult who wants to raise kids who feel at home in their bodies.

In the episode, I read the "Message to Parents" that opens the book—a vulnerable, compassionate invitation to rethink how we teach kids about health, self-worth, and body acceptance in a world that sends so many mixed messages.


Why This Book, and Why Now?

We are living in a culture that praises thinness, filters flaws, and markets "fixes" to our kids before they even know what a flaw is.

Our children are being bombarded with body image messages earlier and more intensely than ever before—through TikTok, YouTube ads, overheard comments at school, and even in well-meaning conversations at home.


Here’s the reality:


  • Kids as young as 3 years old express body dissatisfaction.
  • Almost half of children and teens struggle with body image issues (according to the NIH).
  • And 76% of parents in one study said they’d criticized their own bodies in front of their children.


And the kicker? Many of us were raised in a generation where “wellness” was synonymous with calorie counting, juice cleanses, low-fat everything, and a whole lot of self-denial. We’re trying to unlearn all of that in real time—while trying to protect our kids from the very same messages.


If that feels overwhelming, you’re not alone. I’m a pediatrician and a mom of two, and I’ve struggled with it, too. That’s exactly why I wrote this book. It’s time for something new.


What You’ll Hear in the Episode

In the episode, I walk you through:


  • What makes My One-of-a-Kind Body different from other books about health or body positivity
  • The three key pillars kids need to build true body confidence
  • How we can model body respect—even when we’re still working on our own self-image
  • Why the concept of BMI needs a major reframe in how we talk about health
  • Why health doesn’t mean “perfect,” and confidence doesn’t mean “always loving how you look”


This isn’t about pretending body image struggles don’t exist.
It’s about giving our kids—and ourselves—tools to navigate those struggles with clarity and compassion.


What’s Inside My One-of-a-Kind Body

This book gives kids language and tools to:


  • Understand how their bodies work (and why that’s cool!)
  • Make healthy choices from a place of self-respect, not shame
  • Recognize harmful body messaging—and call it out
  • Care for their physical and mental well-being in sustainable, developmentally appropriate ways


They’ll meet characters who reflect a range of experiences—neurodivergent kids, kids of different races, kids with disabilities, kids in all types of family structures and body sizes. Every activity, illustration, and explanation is grounded in evidence-based guidance and written in a way kids can truly understand.


It also features built-in journaling pages, conversation prompts, and bonus content for caregivers so parents and kids can walk this journey together.


Want to Start Raising Body-Confident Kids Today?


🎧 Step 1: Listen to the Episode


Hear the full message to parents, why this work matters, and how you can begin today—no perfection required.
👉 Listen at the link above


📘 Step 2: Pre-order the Book


Order your copy of My One-of-a-Kind Body before it launches on October 20, 2025.
👉
www.raisingbodyconfidentkids.com/books


🎁 Step 3: Claim Your Free Bonus


When you pre-order, you’ll also get access to a FREE video mini-course with five bite-sized lessons for parents. In just 25 minutes, you’ll walk away with:


  • Simple, script-style ways to respond when your kid says, “I hate my thighs”
  • How to talk about health without weight talk
  • What to do when your own inner critic shows up
  • How to interrupt diet culture at home
  • The first step to raising a body-confident kid—even if you didn’t grow up as one

    📩
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